Talk:Raura Rocks!/@comment-5449963-20120715220315

Okkkay. I really need to get this off my chest because it's been bothering me ever since the R5livestream last week... so don't take offense to whatever I say; I'm just voicing my thoughts.

Look, I know we all love Raura and or Auslly, but we were kinda pushing it too hard last Sunday with the R5livestream. It was a bit nosey for us to ask if they were dating, because frankily, it was a bit personal. (Dang... I feel like we're paparazzi or something...)

Why? I'm not trying to be rude or anything, but we were basically basically assuming that they were "dating" or they had "feelings for one another" because they're acting like close friends. Sure they may hint towards liking one another, but we were pushing it a little. (Again, I LOVE Raura and Auslly!)

(My guy friend and I are close, and we like to fool around (i.e. making jokes, little flirting, etc., but WE DONT have feelings for one another), but that doesn't mean we have feelings for one another. DON'T. I like him just as a friend, and nothing more, and vice versa.

Okay. Does it automatically mean that just because we're interacting, we have to like each other? No. Defiantly not.)

Now, Ross feels a little awkward around her. I can see it (i.e. On his Twitter account, he's not posting any comments directed to her, in the recent video Raini posted, he's acting aloof and awkward around Laura, etc.). When his brother, Riker, asked that question ("Are you dating Laura?") I wouldn't say that he was disguested, but more like, shocked. Some of us Raura shippers may think he was disguted, but he's not that type of guy. I can almost reassure you that he was 100% taken aback by that shocking question. I mean, that livestream was meant (mainly) for answering questions involving his family, his band, and himself, but not his love life...

I mean, I would feel awkward, too, if some random person asked if I liked that person

Do you know that pushing them ogether romantically destroys their chemistry and relationship? Yeahhhh. Defiantly. For example, take Nathan Kress and Jennette McCurdy for iCarly. They were best friends (super, super close!) before the whole "Seddie" and "Jathan" thing. And then, when their (iCarly) fans took it overboard, their relationship dropped, and things got awkward between the two. They're not as close as friends as they used to be, either.

I don't want Ross and Laura to be another Nathan and Jennette mess. Please. No. (Sure, I want them to be another Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart, but we can't always get what we want. We can wish for the better, but that's all that's gonna happen... it's up to Ross and Laura to change their relatinship, not us.)

And then, other people on twitter are hating Ross and his family - R5 - all because he said last Sunday that he wasn't dating Laura. Honestly, not to be rude, but some people need to take a Chill Pill. I love Raura and all, but we can't push whatever they don't want to happen.

Do you know how awkward it must be between the two of them? (VERY.)

It's not the end of the world just because they're not dating (Sure, we might be disappointed, but what's better? Ross and Laura's happiness and friendship, or our selfish happiness/wishes?). I love shipping them - totally and I would like them to get together - but if it makes them uncomfortable, then we should just let it be, and let fate take over.

Whatever happens, happens for a reason. Who knows, maybe they might date, and get together, if we stopped pushing them together. Let them decided, and leave it up to God. ;)

Okay, I'm done with my rant. I'm sorry, in advance, to those who I may have offended, but I just wanted you guys to know how we're being to obsessive with their relationship (and to get this peeve off my chest).

And, thank you for those who actually read my comment without offense. Let me hear what you think. ;)

~Karishiana .^~^.