Thread:Red Compassion, Red Love, Red Hate/@comment-5679384-20140425180842/@comment-5384369-20140430023120

Honestly, even if what he's doing isn't really putting you in immediate danger (unless he's abusive), you really have to have a serious conversation about it and make it clear that you will not tolerate it. Not just because you don't like it, but you're ensuring your safety, which should be the most important thing. He may get angry, but your safety and well-being should be the most important thing in his life. Asking him to stop or even bringing it up isn't to accuse or nag him, despite what he may think, but that you need a healthy environment to grow in.