User blog comment:FashionGal/Horrible News! Need advice!/@comment-4457854-20120510021700

Boys are age are unpredictable. Unstable. Immature. (*No offense guys, girls are unpredictable, unstable, and a little immature, too. Sometime more than guys.)

I suspect he's being unfaithful to Tori. I suggest she confronts him. Don't put him on the spot, though. Talk to him privately about it. He may still have feelings for his ex.

Cheating is not acceptable. Don't spy on him, either. It's not worth it. People make stupid mistakes and decisions. We all do. Talk to him about it, Tori. He may deny it. Chances are, he will deny it.

Just tell him how you feel and don't leave anything out. It's important that you're honest with each other. It isn't a heathy relationship if you aren't honest with each other. Tell him you've been noticing that he has been acting strange lately, but don't accuse him of cheating. Boys hate that.

Overall, it could have been a friendly mistake or a misunderstanding. Even if he was cheating, talk it out. If he doesn't have a good enough explanation, he's not worth to begin with. You're much better than him. If he's cheating, so be it. There's tons of fish in the water! We are young. I know it hurts to think you were in love but people are cruel. A healthy relationship full of trust, honesty, and forgiveness always helps. We all make silly mistakes!

I hoped this helped, Tori! Make sure you tell her this for me, CiCi. (: