Thread:Roxstar14/@comment-25749010-20150314131711/@comment-25749010-20150314220053

Alright, I see what's wrong with you, and now I have all the information I needed to make conclusions over your situation. First of all, a little "disclaimer" or whatever: I am NOT encouraging you to do anything stupid against your life by replying to this message.

Depression comes because you focus too much in yourself. Yes, you'll start thinking: 'What the heck?! People hurt me, why the heck would you say that?' 'Are you kidding me? You're blaming it on me because people bully me?' Well, let me tell you this: If you focused your energy, time, etc on other things instead of thinking about all the bad things people do to you, you wouldn't be depressed. Why don't you start supporting a charity or something like that? I believe your answer will be "I don't like supporting charities."

From what I've read in the past, I think you want to solve your depression problems without doing anything for it, because "people around you need to change; they're the ones hurting you, you're the one being hurt, therefore you have nothing to do with this." Why do you let your classmates opinion influence your life? You wrote you used to like the old A&A because it was different from other shows. You have no interest on dating people? AMAZING, I don't either. I believe romance is completely stupid: people believe they'll have their 'happy ever after' with their partners. Guess what? THAT'S COMPLETELY STUPID FOR ME, but that doesn't mean I'll bully people because they don't think the way I do. But that happens in your life (the other way around, if you get what I mean). You get tired after hearing it once, twice, thrice... Yet I don't get why you pay attention to them. Yes, our society is messed up, but why can't you make the difference by not paying attention to them?

I went through depression for 4 years. I got exactly the same rant I'm giving to you from my philosophy teacher (yet it was deeper than mine), I thought he was being an idiot, stupid, selfless; I thought he knew nothing about my problem... But he did. I didn't believe him at first, but now that I'm trying to help others, even if I get bullied by them, I feel better with myself. I'm not depressed anymore. I was focusing too much on myself and how bad I felt; I used to look for every single mistake my family made, I was blaming others for not being my friends because they weren't intelligent enough to understand me (yes, I used to think that), but I realized I was the problem.

Remember this: I'm not criticizing you as a human being, I'm criticizing your thoughts.

I hope this helps you. You might think "dude, get out of here, disappear, I never asked you to share your thoughts...", but I felt like doing it. I wanted to help you. I also hope you find the answer yourself. Sooner or later you'll realize I'm not lying to you.

I hope you have a nice day! :) <3